别因为遇到了反对意见就想要逃避，而应运用你所有的资源就地和反对者战斗。

Never run away from disagreeable circumstances.Fight them,with all your resources,right where you stand and without a moment's delay.

但这并不是说要对那些向你说“不”的人挥动拳头，而是 说不要接受那些反对意见，而要尽一切努力改变反对者的心意，或者你应该反躬自省，看看你有什么做得不对的地方并加 以改进，有的时候逆境反而是一种检验的机会，它可提供使自 己更进步的方法。

This doesn't mean taking a swing at the fellow who tells you no.It does mean not accepting that refusal and bringing every faculty you have to bear on changing that person's mind. Or you may have to take a hard look at yourself,find the error you made, and resolve then and there to correct it. Sometimes adverse circumstances are testing devices,providing means by which you may be promoted from a given task to a greater on.

记住，你之所以成为一个独立的人，并且处于一定的处境，乃因为你的心中坚持着某种观念和想法。如果你迟迟不坑运用这些观念思想的话，那就等于给自己带来更多的限制 和挫折。

Remember,you are what you are and where you are because of the dominating thoughts in your mind. Procrastination in dealing with these thoughts only sentences you to further limitation and frustration.

步骤10

为完成任何有价值的事情，都须付出一定的代价，任何有价值的事情也值得去做。自力更生的代价就是当一个人在运 用信心时，必须时时保持戒慎的态度。

Recognize that anything worth having has a definite price tag.Anything worth having is worth working for. The price of self-reliance is eternal vigilance in applying your faith.

关上通往恐惧的门之后，你会很快地看到通往信心的大 门，增加和运用信心是一段费时而且需要奉献的历程，你在这 方面的努力是无止尽的，因为你所能运用的力量是无限的，因 努力而获得的回报也是无尽的。

Close the door of fear behind you, and you will quickly see the door of faith open before you. Increasing and applying your faith are a process that takes time and dedication.You will never be finished with this task because the power you have at your disposal is infinite. So are rewards.